One Special Kind Of Love You Should Embrace This Valentine

The greatest kind of love.
Experiencing the love of God.

Everybody is looking for love. And to love and be loved is one of the greatest feelings in life.

What kind of love are you searching for this Valentine? What kind of love have you experienced before? You might have experienced a form of love in the past. But  I will like you to experience the greatest kind of love there is.

Whether it is the love for the members of your family, love for a partner, friendship kind of love, none of them can last forever. But there is one special kind of love that will never pass away. That is the kind of love that supersedes all other kinds of love.

It is called the agape, the God-kind of love. It is the kind of love that made God give His Son for you. It is the kind of love that made Jesus Christ go all the way to the Cross for you.

More than anything else, you need to experience the God-kind of love. It is the kind of love you should live by. In it you will find true meaning for your life.

If you are yet to experience the love of God, you are not safe yet, either in this life or in the one to come. The good part is that God’s love is already given to you – made available in Jesus Christ to everyone.

All you need to do is to accept it and let it transform your life. No one can receive it for you.

The love of God is the only kind of love that can change your life forever. It is the love you should embrace.

3 reasons you should embrace God’s special kind of love

1. The love of God is unconditional

God loves you as you are. But He will never leave you as you are. He will make your life better than He met it. He is the greatest Lover there is.

2. There is security in the love of God

God is not a kind of lover that will love you today and jilt you the next day. His commitment to you is forever.

You have an assurance in His word that nothing can separate you from His love. In other words, there is an eternal security in the love of God.

3. You will have what it takes to love yourself and love others.

If you embrace the love of God you will be empowered to love yourself and love other people too. Those who neglect the love of God will never ever be able to truly love. It is God who gives you the capacity to love.

As you celebrate this Valentine’s Day, remember there is no greater love than the one God offers you. It is the most special kind of love you should embrace.

©CopyRight 2017 | Victor Uyanwanne

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6 Unique Reasons You Should Embrace The Love of God

St. Valentine

It is Saint Valentine’s Day once again. Suddenly our love for one another is awakened again.

But beyond the usual focus on couples’ love, friendship love and family love that pervades the air in times like this, how about talking about the love of God for us too?

The love of God is the greatest love there is. It is the love for all seasons.

Those who neglect the love of God will never ever be able to truly love. It is God who gives us the capacity to love.

God has put His love in our hearts.

And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. Romans 5:5.

Valentine’s day should not make you go searching for love in the wrong places. Neither should you go doing things that make it look like you are desperate for love.

God’s love is already given; and God’s love is for you. It is reliable and available every time.

Here are 6 Unique Reasons You Should fully embrace the Love of God

  1. You are already infinitely loved by God.

Even if no one else loves you, be aware that God loves you beyond measure. He loved you before you were born, He loves you till now and will continue to love you for the rest of your life.

God proved that His love for you has not limit when He gave His son to die for you.

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8 NIV

  1. God’s love for you is unconditional.

If God was looking to love only those that measured up to His standards, then He would have no one to love, because none of us would qualify.

God loves you because God is love. His love for you does not depend on what you did or what you didn’t do. He loves you irrespective of your individual performance – whether you measure up or not.

Does that sound too good to be true? But it is the gospel truth!

  1. God’s love is all inclusive.

Whether you are a Christian or not, whether you believe in God or not, whether you are black or white, male or female, whether you are homosexual or heterosexual, God loves you.

Whatever you are and wherever you are in the world, God loves you. There is no one in the whole wide world that God doesn’t love.

God loves you the way you are. But He will never leave you the way you are. His love is a life-transforming love –  His love will change you for the better.

  1. Nothing can separate you from the love of God.

God will never walk away from you. He will never break your heart if you embrace His love. And no circumstance is strong enough to separate you from the love of God.

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? Romans 8:35 NIV

God is the most faithful lover there is. He sticks with you in good and in bad times, every time.

  1. You can experience God’s great love which He offers to you freely.

God’s love has been bestowed on all mankind; It is already given to all.  All you have to do is to receive it. You receive it through simple faith in Jesus Christ.

Receiving the love of God into your heart will be the greatest experience of your life. It will transform you in many ways.

  1. If you accept the love of God into your life and live by it, it will preserve your heart on earth and prepare it for eternity. This is a bargain that is available only in Jesus Christ. You cannot get it anywhere else.

Your heart will never be satisfied until it embraces the love of God. Valentine’s Day love will come and go but the love of God remains. God’s love is love for all seasons. Embrace it now.

 

©CopyRight | Victor Uyanwanne

What To Do When You Fall To Your Lowest Point

Written by Victor Uyanwanne

The Prodigal Son's story

Sometimes you feel your back on the floor even when you would rather be up there in the sky. “Life is not fair,” so goes the common saying.

Sometimes you reckon it is your fault; some other times it is not. But this is not about apportioning blames as much as it is about doing the right thing.

But, “What should you do when you find yourself on your lowest ebb?”

The choice is yours: either remain on the floor and be trampled upon to death or you do whatever is necessary to get back on your feet. It might not be easy but it can be done.

“It is okay to fall, but only when you don’t stay down”. That was a line I borrowed from a cartoon movie I happen to watch on Disney Junior with my three years old son. I think the wisdom in it is clear. It is not falling that is bad, but falling without getting up.

When you do fall (we all do sometimes), don’t stay down. Get up and pick up your life again.  You can’t go anywhere lying down.

This was a lesson learnt in a hard way by a man driven by his youthful exuberance to the brink of oblivion. Despite his grievous mistake early in life, he rose back on his feet. His human dignity was restored when he took the hard decision to go back home.

Welcome to the world of Kito.

Kito was a tall, handsome and promising young man. He was every lady’s dream man. Every lady wanted to have him and every young man wished they were him.

Kito was born into a wealthy family. His father was one of the richest and kindest men around.

Unlike some other young men of his age, Kito had everything going well for him. He was born into a wonderful family, was always well fed, had the best apparels to wear, owned the coolest ride in town and had a retinue of servants at his beck and call.

However, Kito felt he needed something more from life: freedom – absolute freedom from parental control and freedom to explore the worlds afar off.

Kito woke up one day and made an uncommon request to his father.

“Daddy, please give me half of your life savings. I am entitled to it as one of your only two sons.”

Lord Yom was dazed over his son’s unusual request. He stood speechless momentarily, pondering and gazing endlessly into the cool morning sky.

“I can’t believe my ears. What has come over this boy?” Yom managed to mutter under his breath.

That kind of request had never been heard of in the history of the people of his culture and beyond.  No good child ever demanded the sharing of the estate of a father who had not yet passed on.

Irrespective of the negative perception of his request, Kito had made up his mind. There was no going back on the idea of heeding the alluring invincible call from the outside world.

Kito, who had relatively been a good boy all along, was about to rewrite history – in a negative way.

As one poet puts it, Kito was:

A chosen son! A precious child, free and pure!
Parents watched over him! Protected, and secured.

He grew into a man. Was seduced by Satan’s charms.
Christ’s commandments forgotten. The devil, inflicted harm.

Kito’s loving father was saddened by his son’s unpalatable decision to leave the home. Reluctantly, he obliged the young man with the half of his estate as he had requested.

Having received what he asked for from his daddy, Kito ventured out into the far country with prepaid debit cards fully loaded with enough cash to do all kinds of financial transactions and support a frivolous lifestyle.

“At last, I am free to live my life freely the way I want it,” Kito assured himself. But he was so shortsighted he couldn’t see very far into the future.

With the confidence of a man with a huge balance in his bank account, Kito travelled far and wide to the most exotic places in the world.

He lavished his portion of his father’s hard earned money like there was no tomorrow. He began to throw wild parties, with plenty beautiful ladies in attendance.

Multiple fair weather friends found hiding places in Kito’s nest, exploring the advantage to the fullest. To them, life with Kito was a life filled with enjoyment.

The Prodigal Son Partying Away
Partying Away. Photo credit: burienlittletheatre.org

With enough cash flowing out from Kito’s deep pockets there were no dull moments; everything was well taken care of. Drinks, food, women were freely enjoyed at Kito’s expense.

Kito did not invest any portion of the huge wealth he extracted from his father; neither did he engage in any productive venture to earn additional income. He spent all he had until there was nothing more to spend.

Then came the harshest economic down-turn in town. Kito became confronted with an awful reality: when you keep spending everything you have without investing any part of it or earning additional income to it, one day you will have nothing left to spend.

This simple economics proved a hard thing for Kito to understand until it was too late. He had spent all his resources before he knew it; he checked his pocket and found no cash left to spend.

When he tried, as usual, to get some currency from a nearby ATM, the machine vomited the card with an alert message indicating “insufficient fund.”  His heart became broken.

“What is happening to me?” Kito asked himself, so far away from home.

He wiped his eyes to be sure he wasn’t dreaming. But then the harsh reality had begun to dawn on him: He has fallen to his lowest point.

Life was no longer the same with Kito. No more money to spend. Nothing to call his own. No friend to help him out.

Without cash, the ladies found no reason to keep him warm anymore. His friends had deserted him. Kito was left alone to bear the brunt of his indiscretions.

Worst of all, he could no longer afford to pay his rent. Consequently, his landlord threw him out into the streets where the elements took turns in teaching him some hard lessons he would never forget.

Things moved from bad to worse for Kito until he had no more food to eat. He began to associate with some pig farmers with the hope that he could at least be given some pigs’ food to eat. But he got nothing from the make-shift employers while the unpalatable economic realities in the land lasted.

Spending without Saving

For several nights at a stretch, Kito went to sleep on an empty stomach. As the hunger pangs continued to buffet his stomach and with no one around to call a friend anymore, Kito came to his senses. He realised that even the servants in his father’s house had a better economy than the one he found himself in.

“Why don’t I go back to my father?” he soliloquised.

It was a hard decision which he had to take because he knew he had thoroughly messed up his life. He wasn’t sure his father would receive him back. “But it was worth it to try”, he finally reasoned.

Kito decided it was time he made a radical change. With the decision to return to his father, a new beginning was ushered in for Kito:

  • With a remorseful heart, Kito took a decision to return to his father;
  • He acknowledged he had sinned not only against his father, but against God too;
  • To his pleasant surprise, his father accepted him back, forgave him of the past misconducts;
  • His father even threw a talk-of-the-town welcome home party for him;
  • His relationship with the father was fully restored as if he never offended his father.

Kito reached his lowest point in life, but he didn’t remain there. He returned to his father remorsefully and was met with abundant grace and unconditional love.

Just like Kito, all of us have gone astray like sheep without a shepherd at one point or another. Some of us have fallen from grace to grass. It is now time to go back home, where love and grace await us.

When you reach your lowest point and you don’t know what to do, return to the Father – God. He will help you sort out things. There is enough grace in God to accommodate your inadequacies.

My dear friend, you were created to be in a relationship with God. May be right now you feel like all is not well that relationship with Him. There is still hope for you because God longs to have you back.

This is a call to make a new beginning with God. His love and mercy are enough to accommodate all your mistakes and indiscretions.

Your lowest point should not be your ending point. No matter how far away you think you have gone from God, you have not reached the point of no return yet. Like Kito, take your chance and return to your Father.

God is gently calling out to you, “Come back to me, I am here for you.” Will you heed the call?

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This article was inspired by the “Parable of the Prodigal Son” as told by Jesus Christ in Luke 15:11-32.